Friday, April 29, 2011

Friday or Any Day Fun

Reusable Crayons

To use up the tiny crayon pieces that kids will no longer use, spray a muffin tin with non-stick cooking spray, peel the paper off the crayon bits and place them in the tin. Heat the crayons in a warm oven (200-250 degrees) until they've melted, and let them cool overnight. The kids will love their new giant rainbow crayons, and you didn't need to go buy new crayons.

http://parent.lifetips.com/cat/7945/family-activities/index.html

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Family Law Clinic

Tuesday May 3rd
6:30-8:30pm
District #318 Admin Building
820 NW 1st Ave
Grand Rapids

Free Family Law Clinic....This "focus on Fathers and Families" workshop will include a panel of local experts to discuss and answer general questions about child custody, parenting time, financial and child support questions.
This clinic is open to the public and geared toward fathers, mothers, community members and professionals working with families to learn more about the rights and responsibilities of unmarried or divorced non-custodial parents.

Childcare is available on a limited basis. Please reserve your child's spot by May 2nd by calling Jaci at 327-5753.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Parent Tip Monday

The Shoelace Box

To help kids master shoelace tying, decorate a shoe box to look like a shoe (kids love to do this). Punch holes in the box (three on each side) and lace with an adult shoelace. The box is larger and easier to practice on than a kid-sized shoe, and less stressful since your kids can practice at times other than when everyone is rushing out the door.

http://parent.lifetips.com/cat/2432/education/index.html

Friday, April 22, 2011

Surprise Lunch

Why not surprise your child for lunch one day at school? If your school allows it, join the child for lunch in the cafeteria or better yet pack a quick picnic lunch to share at a nearby park. Don't tell them ahead of time you are coming. This makes the lunch all the more special.

Monday, April 18, 2011

Bullying: A Big Problem

Kathleen Olson, Extension Educator in Family Relations

Updated December 2010 by the author

Most people can remember some experience with a bully while growing up. Unfortunately, bullies still cause psychological and physical damage to other kids. Bullying is when one or several youth employ physical, emotional, or verbal abuse to make life miserable for another. Bullying is not normal childhood behavior and should not be dismissed as “kids will be kids. Youth routinely victimized by bullies may experience anxiety, insecurity, and low self-esteem. Chronic victims of bullying may need professional help as much as the bullies do.

Some experts suggest that changing attitudes and involvement of kids who witness but are not victims of bullying may have the greatest impact on bullies. Since bullies love an audience, a bystander’s encouragement or toleration of the bully will make the bully stronger. Training through role-playing can help youth recognize a potentially harmful situation and assertively do something positive. By simply saying, “That’s not cool,” a bystander can stop a bully’s activities. Youth need to know that taking a stand for what is right can be very effective.

Youth have fully embraced the Internet and electronic technologies as both an environment and a tool for socializing. Cyberbullying, or electronic aggression, is being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material or engaging in other forms of social aggression electronically.There are increasing reports of using these methods to post damaging text or images to bully their peers or engage in other aggressive behavior. Parents should be aware of this newer style of bullying, and be aware of and discuss with their children the following issues connected with it:

  • Electronic methods are available 24/7.
  • Digital material travels fast, even if the intent is that it was sent privately.
  • Communication can be anonymous
  • There may be reluctance to tell parents because they are emotionally traumatized, think it is their fault, or that their electronic communication will be taken away. Stress with your children that it is important to report this type of behavior. For more information on cyberbullying go to: Cyberbullying: What Parents and Educators Can Do.

Typically, assertive, self-confident children do not become victims of bullying. Youth usually are singled out because of psychological traits such as extreme passivity, sensitivity to criticism, or low self-esteem. Here are some things parents can do if they suspect their child is a victim of a bully:

Listen to your child’s reports of being bullied and take it seriously.

Recognize the symptoms: Lost or torn clothing, unexplained bruises, fearfulness or anxiety, moodiness, withdrawn behavior, a drop in grades, lack of friends, loss of appetite, unexplained reluctance to go to school, or sleep disturbances.

Ask questions. Ask your child how he or she is spending lunch break, before and after school. Ask what it’s like riding the bus or walking to school. Ask if there are peers who are bullies without asking whether your teen is being bullied. Encourage speaking out.

Report all incidents to school authorities to combat the bullying. Keep a written record of who was injured and who you reported it to.

Teach your child how to avoid the situations that expose him or her to bullying.

Teach your child how to respond to aggression. With bullies, they should be assertive and leave the scene without violence. Role-play with your child how to react and respond. Do not tell youth to strike back. This gives the message that the only way to fight violence is by using more violence. It makes them feel that they need to solve the problem alone and that parents and teachers don’t care enough to help.

Eliminate violent games, TV shows, and movies as much as possible. Learn how the media encourages teens to watch rather than react. Discuss and model cooperative, non-aggressive ways to solve problems.

Here’s what you can do if your child is exhibiting bullying behavior:

  • Objectively evaluate your teen’s behavior.
  • Teach youth to recognize and express emotions non-violently. Emphasize talking out the issue rather than hitting.
  • Teach conflict-resolution skills.
  • Promote empathy by pointing out the consequences for others of verbal and physical actions.
  • Model toward your child the kind of behavior you want him or her to exhibit to others.
  • Make it clear that aggressive behavior is not acceptable and will not be tolerated.
  • Explain the difference between tattling and telling. Tattling is when you report something just to get someone in trouble. Telling is when you report that you or someone else is in danger.

When aggression is tolerated, everyone loses – the bullies, the victims, and the bystanders. They are all learning that violence is acceptable, and that is not the lesson we want to teach our youth.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Children's Fair!!

Saturday April 16th
9:00am-1:00pm
Grand Rapids IRA Civic Center

Community organizations and businesses come together to provide a FREE fun filled day of educational activities and information.

-Kiwanis FREE pancake breakfast for children and families served from 9-11 by Kiwanis, Circle K and Key Clubs.
-Hands on Tours of BIG vehicles
-Carnival
-Stoytellers and Music
-Fantastic Door Prizes

Fun and Learning for all ages...Hope to see you there!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Parent to Parent LIVE

Helping Kids Grow

Consider signing up for this 1 hour chat that you can do from work or home. Child development psychologist, Dr. Marti Erickson will be presenting "Helping Your Child Manage Emotions and Get Along with Others: The What, When and Why of Supporting Healthy Social-Emotional Development" and will be live to respond to your questions and comments.

Pre-Registration is required at http://www.workingfamilyresourcecenter.org/wfrc/en/p2plive.asp

Watch for upcoming topics!!

Friday, April 8, 2011

Friday Fun

Phonics Bingo

Try this twist on the classic game to let kids practice associating letters with sounds. To do: Make a bingo grid of consonants on a piece of cardboard. On the grid, include all consonants, the blends sh, ch, and th, and a free space in the middle. Call out the letters by sound (eg. "tuh" for T), have your child name a word that begins with that sound, and then cover the correct letter with a small piece of cardboard. Be sure to reward successes, and don't criticize mistakes. Your child may also enjoy practicing his letters by being the caller himself.

http://parent.lifetips.com/cat/2432/education/index.html

Monday, April 4, 2011

Motivating Kids to Exercise

Did You Know?
Only 35 percent of kids meet the recommended physical activity levels by increasing their heart rate and breathing hard for at least 60 minutes a day on five out of every seven days. Follow these tips below to ensure your kids have a lifetime of good health.

Motivating Kids to Exercise | ParentFurther

Friday, April 1, 2011

What a FUN filled weekend in our community!!

FUN FUN FUN!!!

Sunday April 2nd

1:00-3:30
Grand Rapids Eagles Clubroom

Join the Cherish Our Children Council for a day of fun for the whole family. Enjoy sloppy joes and an afternoon of games and crafts. What a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon...Hope to see you there!
This is a FREE Children First! event. Register online at www.getlearning.org or by calling 318 Community Education at 327-5730

What a FUN filled weekend in our community!!

Looking for something fun to do with your kids this weekend?

Saturday April 2nd 9:00-12:00 Grand Rapids Middle School

Join the Grand Rapids High School's Green Team to learn how to care for the earth and the environment we live in. Enjoy demonstrations by local environmental agencies and be sure to catch the 10:30 presentation by University of MN Raptor Center featuring 4 birds of prey to view and learn about.
This is a FREE Children First! event. Please register online at www.getlearning.org or by calling 318 Community Education at 327-5753